A very warm welcome to the Personal Growth Online E-mail Coaching and Mentoring Program. I hope you will find all the information you are seeking here.
ABOUT THE COACHING AND MENTORING PROGRAM- WHO IS THE PERSONAL GROWTH COACHING AND MENTORING PROGRAM FOR?
- WHY EMAIL COACHING AND MENTORING?
- ABOUT ME
- ETHICS GUIDING MY WORKING PRINCIPLES
- SAFETY ONLINE
- FEE STRUCTURE
- HOW TO GET STARTED
- ABOUT OUR WORK TOGETHER
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ABOUT THE COACHING AND MENTORING PROGRAM
The coaching and mentoring program is an Email service that invites you to explore your world in a more intimate and personal way. Your honesty in writing about your thoughts and your world will unfold an awareness beyond your conscious reality that has the potential to change the way you experience and the way your co-create your life and the life of others.
Most often we are running in circles trying to find the key to understanding what is going on at any given moment. Our conscious thoughts are not providing us with either solutions nor insights into our struggles. The problem is, our faculty of thought has never been designed to do so in the first place. Incorporating this understanding into our life alone can move mountains for people.
A professional mentor like myself will help you to unfold the missing bits and pieces and as your exploration into your world will shape, you will find that the way you experience personal growth and personal development will change. If we want to change our experiences we need to change the way we view things. The more we understand our very personal process of being in and relating to the world around us, the more we will gain insights into what is holding us back to be who we yearn to be. Feeling stuck is nothing else than the exhaustion of our perceived world and resources in finding an opportunity and ways to move towards a more joyful experience.
Albert Einstein defined insanity as “doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results”.
Our mind cannot be separated from our thought, and our thought cannot be separated from our emotional experience. Everything that is important to us is embedded in our value and belief system.
Too many times have I seen people battling, struggling and pushing themselves through all sorts of changes, believing that barriers that are holding us back need to be broken through, In my experience as a personal coach and mentor in my private practice in Fremantle Western Australia I have found this approach not a very successful way to go. The struggles and barriers hold a lot of valuable information for us. We have created our barriers in the first place to protect our sanity and our world. They might be very much outdated but that does not mean that we have created something completely useless. Constantly fighting without a deeper understanding and clarity of what we are actually fighting against or fighting for just does not seem a very fruitful endeavour. Every single part of you, every thought, every action and reaction is in line and absolutely valid to your world of experience right now. Pushing through your system without understanding is an extremely energy depleting affair and many people have arrived at a point of complete exhaustion.
The Personal Growth and Personal Development Coaching and Mentoring Program is designed to look at the filter or the map of your world that holds the key to your thoughts and your emotions. Our aim together is to create more insights and not more confusion in a playful, informational, and graceful way that is non-judgemental and respectful of your very own world.
To know what experience we are yearning for and to understand how to create it, is a journey worthwhile to be taken. The irony is that we know it all, all our thoughts, actions and reactions reflect our knowledge and have the potential to guide us. And yet, we are guarding the awareness away from us. We are the guardians and the prisoners alike. This is the very basic design of our mind. Only as an observer can we change that. To become your own skilled observer is a very liberating journey and often humour replaces the more darker places in life.
Life is like a chess play, every move is an intricate affair and is all about safety and calculated risks. One move changes the whole dynamics of the game, the focus is never only on the goal. The better we understand this intricate interplay the better chances do we have arriving at our goal – checkmate! Life is no different. The more we know about the intricate interplay of our mind, the better chances do we have arriving at our goal – bingo!
Learn about the importance and the art of proper goal setting and acquire skills to move you forward on your chosen path, step by step.
WHO IS THE PERSONAL GROWTH COACHING AND MENTORING PROGRAM FOR?
Please allow me to mention who it is not for, first. The E-mail Personal Growth and Development Coaching and Mentoring Program is not a psychological emergency service. I don’t provide quick answers to problems that require a more personalised approach. If your personal or other people’s safety are at risk, please do take the step to contact somebody qualified in your local area for help because you deserve it.
This program is for people that have a deep desire for understanding their human beingness and every action, reaction and thought that comes with it. If you would like to gain insights into your very personal world, if you want to understand yourself and others better, if you want to change the experiences that life has to offer, then I would like to offer myself as a mentor and coach to your unfolding journey.
Whether you are interested from a personal perspective, as a professional working with people, or as a parent, the insights will always start with your own world. As you keep enlarging your world, you will be able to enlarge the world of others.
WHY EMAIL COACHING AND MENTORING?
As a newborn we expressed ourselves with sounds but words are a creation of the world we have been born into. Words in any form imply a history – our history. The choice of our words and how we group them together creates an interface between our conscious and unconscious belief and value systems. We can only say what we think. And what we think is highly dependable on our reality of the world and our perceived place in it.
Words, or the absence of them, can open windows to any aspect that we wish to explore about ourselves. Nothing in my years of private practice have generated more insights for my clients than the unfolding of a whole new understanding based on the choice and expression of words. Words do not impact only others but they equally impact the deepest corners of ourselves out of where they arise in the first place.
Words derive from the faculty of thought, which cannot be separated from the mind. All our senses, the way we feel, the way we see, hear, touch and smell all have to pass through our mind in order for us to become conscious of them. Enlarging the world of the mind is synonymous with enlarging the capacity of what we take in from the world and what we give out. To bring this process into more consciousness empowers us to recreate ourselves and to dare to dream bigger. Allowing yourself to create those dreams and being able to imagine yourself living the life you want, being the person you want to be, is a true mastery in itself.
ETHICS GUIDING MY WORKING PRINCIPLES
I am committed to the highest ethical standards, strictest confidentiality and meet your cultural heritage with the highest respect. As a human being entering into a mentoring and coaching relationship I see my work as solely mirroring your world from various angles and offering insights that you might chose to explore or not, the decision lies always with you. You are the leader on your own path, I will just shine the torch for you on that path. I believe that each human being has a sense of this is right or not right for me, I put this recognition into your own hands and rely on your honest assessment thereof. Thus, I trust that you will seek qualified local help if safety is an issue and understand that you take this as your own responsibility.
My working principles are guided by personal values that have shaped my professional world over the past 20 years and incorporate a non-judgemental attitude, highest respect for the reality of your present moment experience and a non-violent approach. This is in respect to yourself, others and myself.
Our work together is confined to Emails only and I do not enter into any other form of mutual correspondence. My words are my intellectual property and you are free to share my writings within personal circles. Any form of publication, including on the internet, will require my permission.
Working over the internet, one has to recognise that there is never a full guarantee of total privacy in Emails. It is up to you to ensure that the level of privacy that you require will be set up before you commence.
There are a couple of thoughts on this issue that I would like to share. If you are sharing computers and email addresses it might be worthwhile to sign up for a web mail address. This is a service like, for example, Gmail, which is keeping your communication off your own computer and storing it in a third party mail account. It is password protected and you can access your account from any computer you wish to do so. This service is free.
If you are interested in setting up an encryption system, which might incur additional charges, please mention that in your first email and we shall be exploring some appropriate options like www.hushmail.com (free but slower service, emails storage off your computer) or PGP (payed encryption software, email storage on your computer).
Your investment with me will be either on a weekly or monthly basis.
Weekly rate: AUS $ 127 Monthly rate: AUS $ 454
Emails are generally answered within 24 to 48 hours but my guarantee is an answering time within 72 hours of receiving your email.
You will find that our exchange of emails will become a very dynamic interaction once we get going. For your own benefits, I suggest that you commit yourself only when you can make the space available to keep the interaction going. Usually, people engage in our work together, go and play with it and then come back for more clarification and discussion. Or they may use the service to get more clarification in times of great challenges. People working with others often would like to get another opinion on the situation to guide their decision making process.
Which ever way you chose to invite me to walk the path with you is fine with me.
I feel honoured you made it that far.
Before we embark on our journey together there are a couple of things we need to establish. The first one is to ensure that the Personal Growth Coaching and Mentoring program is the right decision for you and I will indeed be the right person to mentor your journey into yourself. The second one is to check my bookings as to ensure that I can commit myself time wise.
Our first commitment to each other shall always be on a weekly basis which will allow for more certainty on both sides should you wish to continue working with me on a deeper level.
Thus, I would like to invite you to send me a short email to halka@personalgrowthonline.com. In this email, please just write what motivated you to write and seek my services.
Or you can simply drop us a line in the form below and we shall contact you.
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IMPORTANT: If you wish to work with encryption please note that in your initial email as this is something that needs to be set up before your payment.
In my reply I will let you know if and when we can start our work together and will send you the terms outlining all the information how we work together. This will just be a summary of all the above information really.
Should you wish to continue you will find a link to the payment page in the email. Your weekly/monthly time begins with your date of payment. You can email me straight away.
If my bookings do not allow for any new clients at the moment of your inquiry then I will offer you the choice of joining my waiting list or find somebody else to work with you.
Each person has their unique ways to learn about the world of others. I, personally, chose present moment experiences to gain insights into your world. All your history is implied in your thoughts, actions or reactions you might have in any given moment in your life. Thus, the Personal Growth Mentoring Program is designed to work in a very alive and dynamic way. What is going on for you right now and here is the central focal point of our inquiry together. The past is only there to remind us who we became to be but cannot guide us anywhere new. Only the presence has the potential to open new doors and insights.
This approach implies a certain sensitivity towards one self especially if you want to chose the medium of the written word for exploration. Each email will bring back to you plenty of questions and inspirations to further deepen your reflection and gain insights into your personal world. Even if I knew your whole life story, there is no way I would know how you experience your world. Because it is your very unique meaning that distinguishes your experience from anyone else’s. Let curiosity guide our inquiry, the more curiosity you will have the more answers you will find.
Because, I can teach you to become your own observer and give you all the knowledge you might need, but only your insight will make the difference. Only you are your own expert!
And finally, one important last point: From my postings on this website Personal Growth Online.com you might sense that my native language is not English, even though, it is my favourite one to communicate in. My style gives a lot away of who I am and how I think (and about my English skills), please make sure you feel comfortable with my writing style if you wish to work with me. Thank you.
Whether you chose to work with me or anyone else, I hope your journey will open many windows to new horizons and opportunities. Learn to dream big, then everything from now on begins with a dream and one step towards it!
All the best
Halka
Enjoy this short inspirational video ‘THE DON’T QUIT POEM’ by Dr. Anthony Fernando.
And here you can visit Dr. Anthony Fernando‘s website.
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